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August 21, 2009

Tunnel Reaches from New York to London!

It's true! The impossible, yet again has been proven possible!  With exposure to scientific theory and experience with engineering mechanics the world round, a tunnel has been built that SPANS the GaP between New York and London. The costs incurred accomplishing this amazing feat were.....minimal. Or were they catastrophically high?

The tunnel of which I speak was built in the imagination of a 13 year old boy during a basic screening of vocabulary skills, one Saturday afternoon at the public library.  To give you a little background, this young person has been raised by his monolingual Spanish speaking father since the age of 7.  It was at 7 that his parents divorced.  Since his start in school at 4 years old, through his now 7th grade year, he has attended 8 different schools.  Four of these in Maryland and 4 in Virginia.  One on one, he is pleasant and conversational although to the perceptive observer, language differences are apparent and serious. 

As a child identified with a disability and served under IDEA, he did and continues to have the right to a fair and appropriate public education in the least restrictive environment. The difficulty is that with so many moves between schools over the years, keeping track of services, appropriate goals and objectives and monitoring progress toward these goals has been a challenge. It could be easy for a young man such as this to fall into the cracks or to get lost in a tunnel spanning between frustration and hopelessness.

A question posed to him that day was "Can you make a road trip from New York to London?" The answer came quickly and "confidently." "Yes! If I had a car!"  The screener continued without reaction but was drawn back to the question later, out of curiosity more than anything else.  Again the question was posed but this time a map was provided.  It was obvious that he didn't know where to start to look for either New York or London so he was pointed in the right direction and asked the question again.  Again, the answer came, "Yes!" "How?" was the one word response by the screener.  For the next few minutes laughs were shared over attempts to find a way to make this road trip.  He quickly concluded that a trip via the northern most parts of the world would be far too cold, not to mention the lack of roads and connecting landmass, and a bridge was obviously out of the question because it would have to be "way too long."  He then triumphantly stated, "a tunnel!" After all, he had been in a tunnel in Baltimore, so why not?

As the screener considered his reasoning, she began to see his logic.  Flawed only by the limits of engineering and construction theory, but completely possible given his limited exposure and experience to the world around him.

As children and adults are judged and misjudged in the community and at school, it is vital to consider their exposure and experience within their environment.  From their homes to the world that they occupy, their understanding cannot be assumed to be equal to our own.  So with that we are all challenged to believe in the tunnel from New York to London, to believe in possibility and to strive to destroy the tunnel spanning between frustration and hopelessness.

Good luck this new school year and strive to change a life!  ruby

August 16, 2009

Where is the Beginning?

Where Does One Start?
 

Originally: 06/24/2009, Revised: Sunday, May 10, 2009, Re-revised, August 16, 2009

Where does one start when they see the destination but the path is blurred? A dear friend reminded me that by only focusing on the destination and not watching where you step along the way, you will almost certainly follow a path straight into trouble. That trouble could be a bump in the road that causes only a minor stumble, it could be a freshly deposited pile of poo poo, or it could be a ditch, not a nice ditch but a nasty, slimy ditch!

Before giving details on minor stumbling, smelly, messy stepping and falling into slimy ditches, (yes I have experienced all of these) I will start at the beginning. The beginning is SPAN the GaP! Parent ~ Student Assistance Network focusing on Guidance and Prevention. This is the name of the non-profit community-based agency that we are creating. Our mission is to SPAN the GaP between at-risk children & families and the education, resources & services that they need to believe in a bright, successful future. Believe? Only believe you might ask? Yes! Believing in yourself, being willing - being daring enough to think of the future beyond tomorrow or this week is something that many in our community can't do!

For some of us, our futures were planned from the day we were born. Our parents saved for college, for the education that in some cases had eluded them. For some children today, a college fund is a reality, but for more than 43% of the children in my community, qualifying for Free or Reduced lunch is their reality. Do these children know that they are living in poverty? If we do our jobs as educators, they don't know and neither do their friends but there are still their parents. These parents know all too well that a future is only as far as this week's pay will reach.

SPAN the GaP is focused on providing and facilitating Educational assistance and Resource and Services searches for at-risk children, youth and their parents. For the children and youth, the focus is the development of social and communication skills, self confidence and academic content mastery. For the parents and families, the focus is the development of family and community responsibility, communication and parenting skills along with information on resources and services available to them.

Where does one start? This "one" is starting with faith and a purpose focused on Hope, a talented and exceptional counselor and a school psychologist with talents and skills too numerous to list. Are you excited yet? Are you the least bit curious? Stay tuned as my next post will introduce the team!


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